Where It Started

I left home at fourteen. What steadied me after that wasn't a single moment — it was slowly learning, over years, that love didn't have to come with conditions attached. That's still the thing I try to hand back to every person I work with.

Then came years of chronic illness that conventional medicine couldn't fully explain or fix. So I went looking elsewhere — nutrition, alternative healing, the body's own intelligence — and learned the thing that still runs underneath everything I do: your body knows before your mind catches up. You just have to stop overriding it.

My childhood wasn't easy — real trauma, a home that broke more than once. What I wanted for my own family was something different: fiercely loving, liberated, communicative — built on interdependence, not obligation or expectation. Twenty-three years married and counting, we built exactly that, with no blueprint to work from. Living the proof of possibility for anyone.

My two birth children came earth-side at home, by candlelight, with just my husband present — one of many initiations on this path. Those nights were ecstatic and terrifying in the same breath, because nothing about birth lets you control it. You either grip for control, or you open to power, to trusting what your body already knows how to do. I've been teaching that same difference — power versus control — in every room I've worked in since.

Do you know that feeling of "and just like that" — nothing about your life is ever going to look the same again? I got hit with that in 2008. The house, the business, the version of security I thought we'd built for our family — gone, almost overnight. I remember standing in my kitchen, shaking, trying to decide whether we could afford to keep the fridge or the stove. Not both. That's a moment that's stayed with me — not because it was dramatic, (it was!) but because everything external I'd been using to know who I was got stripped away. What was left underneath it all wasn't just still me. It was more me. The essence, not the character I'd been performing.

We rebuilt a life and family beyond our dreams at the time. We relocated. We adventured and world-schooled our younger kids. The real shift wasn't ditching plans — I'm not against a plan. It was letting go of micromanaging life with a death grip on the control that, quite frankly, we didn’t have anyway, and choosing trust and presence instead: staying available for what's actually needed, what's actually aligned, moment to moment. That's still the thing I believe most.

The Name

Here's the strange part: people had already been calling me Amor for years before any of this — nobody remembers exactly when it started, it just stuck. So when, in 2019, I went through two weeks I still don't fully have language for — music showing up as color, feelings I could almost touch, the air around me thick — chewable, even — and a name arrived out of it, Amorahki (ah-mor-ah-kai), the coincidence wasn't lost on me. It felt like my own soul essence handed back to me in a word — too much of a gift to file away as a nice experience. So I adopted it, informally, as my first name. Only later did I realize it held the eight codes — eight thresholds of becoming — that named something I'd already been doing with people for years without ever having words for it. That became The Amorahki Method.

The Method

The Amorahki Method is living, evolutionary work — not a five-step program, not a worksheet, not something that lives only in your head. It works with the body, the emotional field, and the layers of identity underneath the thinking mind, because that's where most of what keeps people stuck actually lives. It moves across every domain life touches — relationships, money, health, parenting, purpose, creativity, the spiritual stuff nobody quite has language for either.

Clients tend to describe the same thing, in different words: something shifted that they'd stopped believing could shift.

How I Work

I work intuitively and somatically, which is a fancier way of saying I follow what's actually alive in the room instead of a script I memorized in a training. My particular gift — the thing people tell me about most — is that I see what's underneath the surface, and I can reflect it back in a way that's safe enough to actually look at.

My training spans strategic intervention, relationship coaching, woman-centered facilitation, conscious parenting, alternative health, trauma-informed somatic healing, yoga, and meditation — decades of it, gathered the way some people collect frequent flyer miles: one certification and one real-life crucible at a time.

What I bring into a room, above all of it, is unconditional love and the kind of presence that makes it safe to be completely, unapologetically real. No performance required.